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Im 16 and have my parents permission to move out, what should i do, details inside?
Well i live with my grandpa and im 16 and he provides me with my needs and wants but we get into alot of arguements about education and other things he even threatens to kick me out alot, we fight almost every night and i think he is hurting me more then helping. I wrote this letter to him (http://instavpscom.com/dustin/letter.doc or http://instavpscom.com/dustin/letter.rtf if you dont have the program to open .doc files and what do you guys think of it and is it legal for me to move in with a friend at my age of 16 with his consent (the friends dad said to me today i was welcome anytime if i needed a place to stay) but my grandpa doesn’t like the family, so when i am with them right now i have to hide it from him and i hate doing that. I drive a snowmobile for transportation and have a job at the restaurant in town, hoping to get a car soon. Thanks
Also make sure you read the letter or at least some of it, i need to know if its a good idea to give this to him.
I think it’s a great letter. It’s always worth a shot. Give it to him and see what he says about it.
As for moving out. I moved out of my mom’s house at 16 and my boyfriend and i moved into an apartment together and have been fully supporting ourselves for a year now. I’m not emancipated, but my mom gave me permission so i left.
As far as i know, it’s legal. Nobody has ever told me it’s not and my family’s friends with multiple police officers (because my grandfather, uncle and cousin are current and past workers)…none of them have said anything about it being illegal. As long as your parents or guardian give you permission to live elsewhere, try it out and see what you think. I love being on my own…i was in a bad living situation and i was the happiest i had been in a long while after i got out of that house. Maybe it’ll be the same for you. Or maybe you won’t like it and you’ll go straight back. But you never know until you try.
Like i said, i fully support myself. You never really know what your parents pay for until it’s all laid out in front of you. I’m not sure if you’ll have to deal with the the entire money aspect yet but just keep in mind, once you’re out on your own…that’s it. Everything’s on your shoulders. It’s something that should be a big part of your decision making here…whether or not you think you can make it on your own right now.
Before you go ahead with moving out, think…think…and think again. Make sure everything that you have to do has went through your head a couple times. Being on your own when you’re under 18 can be hard. It take a lot of work and determination and can be very frustrating in the beginning.
